In modern society, orgasm is seen as the "ultimate goal" in sexual activity. However, in reality, whether it's solo self-pleasure or partner interaction, a significant number of people cannot easily reach orgasm. According to Rowland, Cempel, and Tempel, as reviewed in their recent study "Women's Attributions Regarding Why They Have Difficulty Reaching Orgasm," reports of difficulty or inability to orgasm in women range from 10 to 40 percent.
Why is this? Today, we'll talk about it from a sexual psychology perspective: What's blocking your pleasure? And what kind of g-spot vibrator should you use to solve the problem?
Performance Anxiety
"Will I do a bad job?" "Do I still look sexy?" These seemingly mundane thoughts are actually typical manifestations of sexual anxiety. Studies have shown that being overly concerned about one's "performance" in sex can directly reduce the body's arousal response. This kind of people may have...
💪 High self-discipline
🌪️ Easy to be disturbed
🧠 Hard to focus on the present
Toy Suggestions: Silent G-spot Vibrator
These vibrators has no harsh sound, allowing the user to focus more on the physical experience and enter a state of relaxation or emotional engagement.
Shame
Some people still have the idea that sex is dirty and masturbation is shameful. The stigma brought by this social and cultural background can make people subconsciously tense, shrink or avoid before the pleasure comes. This kind of people may...
📅 Enjoy setting a sex schedule
💭 Easy to think whether I reach orgasm
⚡ Have the feeling of edging
Toy Suggestions: Rabbit Vibrators
Their cute shapes can help with psychological transition and "unlocking the body." Do you want to know more about rabbit vibrators?
Compulsive Thinking
These people are used to "taking control of everything" and even planning their orgasms. But pleasure is spontaneous and hates being arranged and controlled. This kind of people may have...
📅 Enjoy setting a sex schedule
💭 Easy to think whether I reach orgasm
⚡ Have the feeling of edging
Toy Suggestions: App-controlled G-spot Vibrator
This kind of vibrator reduces the user's sense of "control" and gives the initiative to the body and toys.
Long-term Stress
Sex is about your brain. When your brain is in "work mode" for long periods of time, it's hard to switch to "enjoyment mode." Chronic stress can lead to sex hormone imbalances that affect the pleasure receiving system. A report by WTO found a high positive correlation between psychological stress and sexual dysfunction, especially among urban women.
😴 Have a bad sleep
🎯 Hard to concentrate
💔 Lose interest in things you once liked
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You can relax your body with soothing music and a vibrator
