• I’m A Man Who Can’t Orgasm Through Marriage Sex

    20-07-2021

    I’m A Man Who Can’t Orgasm Through Marriage Sex

    > Lucine Keogh

    Dear Sohimi,

    I’m a 45-year-old man who has a ten-year marriage now, but unluckily, my marriage sex doesn’t have too much pleasure for me. Every time I make love with my wife, our intercourse is smoothly without a hitch but I seldom get an orgasm from it. Through masturbating I could bring myself to orgasm within three minutes. However, through vaginal sex, it doesn’t happen at all and she has to finish me with oral sex or a hand job. I’m not sure what’s going on. My question is, knowing all this, how can I do? I’m starting to feel self-conscious and unattractive in addition to exhausted during the increasingly rare occasions that we do have sex. Please help me.

    J.

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    Dear J.

    Do not worry, we are here to help you. 

    In modern society, it’s generally believed that some men have a strong physiological response to orgasm, which occurs with loud shouts and violent body movements. Others will have quieter ones. But the intensity of most men's orgasms may fall between these two extreme reflections.

    For many males, the main source of pleasure in orgasm is powerful ejaculation. Long after ejaculation, some men continue to experience a strong feeling of orgasm. While other men experience orgasms with a similar pattern to women, but the intensity is several times that of women, and a series of orgasms with short intervals of less intensity are accompanied by ejaculation at the peak

    There is also a stereotype that only women will encounter the problem of not having an orgasm during sex. In comparison, it is much more direct and easier for men to get happiness. However, the MSNBC website in the United States reports that: men are not as we imagined, which in the process of sex can reach orgasm every time.

    American sexologist Brian Alexander pointed out in the report that some people can have an erection without difficulty during sex, and can last for a long time without being weak, but they cannot achieve orgasm or ejaculation, not to mention sexual pleasure. This is a sexual dysfunction disease as opposed to premature ejaculation, and improper handling may affect the relationship between couples. 

    We have collected four ways to help you: 

    Find Your G Spot 

    Generally speaking, older men tend to have more control over the time of ejaculation. However, in order to prolong the time of intercourse, frequent use of diverting methods and this habit can eventually lead to non-ejaculation.

    To find the man’s G-spot: prostate. Sohimi's product Prostate Stimulator is just such an excellent product. It not only stimulates the penis but also stimulates the prostate in men. No matter you are a beginner or experienced, it must be the best prostate toy for men.

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    In fact, men don't only have one G-spot, they have three! The first point is the "foreskin frenulum", a skin fold that connects the glans penis under the penis. The second point is the "perineum", which is located midway between the bottom of the scrotum and the anus. The third point is the most secret one: the "prostate", there is a chestnut-sized protrusion at five centimeters inside the anus.

    Keep these three points in your mind! Stimulate the G-spot of these men from time to time when making love. If you and your wife are both interested and adventurous, you can explore and enhance the sexual pleasure of men together. 

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    Focus On Body Feelings

    Orgasm edge technique, that is, to consciously delay the arrival of orgasm until the most perfect and strongest orgasm is achieved. When a man approaches 90% of the orgasm, he can stop, take a break, and then "sprint" again, his final orgasm will be even more intense.

    Sometimes during sex, a man will distract himself unconsciously, such as thinking of how hot his female partner is, and recalling the most exciting pornographic film he has ever seen. If you want to achieve a stronger orgasm, you should focus on your physical feelings. Once you concentrate, you will find that your body's response will be very different. 

    Go to try Sohimi's Eliza-Hands Free Male Masturbator. This hands-free male sex toy has 3 modes sexy female moans selected by you, the more intense the twitching, the louder the screaming, allowing you to enjoy a different sexual experience to reach ultimate orgasms. Make sure to use a water-based lubricant to achieve the best experience.

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    Learn Foreplay

    Dr. Linda De Villers, a psychologist and sex therapist in Gary, suggests starting with a slow and sensual back rub. 

    The position of a woman is useful because it helps a man restrain his urge to start pushing. A practical extension method is called the "extrusion technique". Just before orgasm, place your thumb on one side of the base of the penis, place the tips of your index and middle fingers on the other side, and squeeze.

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    Find the rhythm, and then slow down your breathing until it "resonates with the same frequency" as the thrusting action. When the orgasm is coming, you will find that your breathing begins to become rapid, but you still have to work hard to slow down your breathing, because this will make the penis get more blood flow and oxygen delivery, making the orgasm more intense. Go try Sohimi’s enlargement device. Don’t worry, this Sohimi’s penis enlargement device will help train your penis. It is the best penis pump on the market! It’s not only a penis enlarger but also makes the penis erection longer.

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    This penis enlargement device is intelligent pressure controlled. Just select a preferred pressure level, the penis enlargement device will increase or decrease to the nominal voltage without further manipulation. Compared with traditional erection pumps, this one could be the best penis pump which is so easy to operate. 

    Ice Temptation

    If you want to help a man let him embrace the stimulus again, using the SPA during the shower can also help. You can use the water flow from the showerhead to stimulate around the top and roots of the dragon. If you want to enhance the effect, you can use alternating heat and cold stimulation. At this time, all he needs is the temptation of ice power. The cream and jelly just taken out of the refrigerator are very good flirting babies. On the one hand, it can be used as a lubricant, on the other hand, it can satisfy the appetite, full of fun, and is most suitable for hot summer use. 

    Talk With Her 

    A male orgasm includes two stages. In stage one, sperm are drawn from the testicles and collected in a staging area below the prostate in the ejaculate. The second stage (starting a few seconds after ejaculation) is ejaculation. 

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    If possible, avoid disturbing the man’s attention at all stages. It is great to use techniques that you both know and love, but unexpectedly during orgasm, dramatic exercises are more distracting than distractions. No matter how long you are with your partner, you can have an open and honest conversation about the bed you like and the bed you don’t like, it’s never too late. A survey found that couples who openly talk about sex are getting closer and closer emotionally, and this intimacy translates into sexual desire.

  • Which Sex Toys Are Worth Sharing With Gays During LGBTQ Pride?

    20-06-2021

    Which Sex Toys Are Worth Sharing With Gays During LGBTQ Pride?

    > veronica lin

    Hey, guys. What's up!

    Do you know LGBTQ PRIDE?

    Are you proud of LGBTQ PRIDE?

    Have you participated in LGBTQ PRIDE?

    A gay couple is kissing

    My answer is YEP!!! I’m David from the United States and I’m a member of LGBTQ.A few weeks ago, Sohimi invited me to talk about my views on LGBTQ PRIDE. The following are my personal views on LGBTQ PRIDE to share with gays. If you are interested in this, please continue reading.

    Be Proud Of Who I Am

    Have you heard of a cool guy whose name is Tim Cook? I bet you did! Apple chief executive Tim Cook has publicly acknowledged his sexuality, saying that he is "proud to be gay. And Mr. Cook made his announcement to try to help people struggling with their identity. He wrote in a Bloomberg Businessweek article, "He said if hearing that the CEO [chief executive] of Apple is gay can help someone struggling to come to terms with who he or she is, or bring comfort to anyone that feels alone, or inspire people to insist on their equality, then it's worth the trade-off with my privacy," he added. Mr. Cook admitted that going public as a gay man was not an easy choice, but it certainly looks courageous.

    He is Tim Cook

    Mr.Cook is an idol I admire. Influenced by him, I have more courage to face the real me. I came out in the first semester of my senior year. At the time, my parents did not support my approach. They worried that if I were suddenly exposed to the sun, I would be alienated by some relatives and friends, which would increase my pressure. I did suffer some blows from my friends after I came out. For a while, I thought about whether the decision I made was correct and whether I need to care about what others think of me.

    Mr. Cook's story tells me that there is nothing to struggle with. Although gender is innate, sexual orientation is what we can choose according to our hearts. Eventually, I quickly walked out of confusion and actively lived and worked. Also screened out good friends that support me. It can be said sincerely. I am proud to be gay. I am proud of who I am.

    N.Y. Pride Parade Experience In 2019 

    One year after coming out, I was lucky to meet Marty. We fell in love quickly like a duo of ice and fire. In June 2019, we participated in an LGBTQ PRIDE in New York. As we know,2019 will be the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising. This is a significant event that started the gay liberation movement. To celebrate the anniversary, NYC Pride 2019 will be named WorldPride 2019 with Stonewall50.

    On that day, there were many related groups from abroad. That year's Pride Parade was on a grand scale. Governors, mayors, councilors, and some celebrities attended the parade. The total number of teams from all walks of life participating in the parade exceeded 650, watching and supporting them on the side of the road. There are also millions of people. We passed the gay bar Stonewall Bar, which witnessed LGBTQ historical events.

    Marty&David

     

    Rainbow colors everywhere I look. Well before the march kicked off, thousands crowded the sidewalks of Fifth Avenue, staking out their spots to get the best view. People clad in rainbow apparel streamed out of subway stations and onto the streets, chattering as they gathered under bright skies in seasonably warm weather. Along the route, people waved rainbow flags. Three women at the corner of 22nd Street and Fifth Avenue, blocks from the start of the march, had donned matching rainbow tutus and unicorn ears.

    Pride March in Manhattan kicked off at noon on Sunday. And we're off! At exactly noon, with the singing of "The Star-Spangled Banner" — a tribute to a far more muted flag than the one lining the streets of New York — the Pride March began. Cheers rang out from the barricades as rainbow confetti was blasted over the crowd packed up and down Fifth Avenue. Then a set of rainbow balloon arches, which featured the light blue and pink colors of the transgender pride flag, were lowered, and the marchers moved forward.

    LGBTQ PRIDE

    At the front of the parade were members of the Gay Liberation Front, an early LGBTQ, a rights group that included people who participated in t Stonewall uprising 50 years ago. A sweaty crowd clapped and waved in the humid summer heat as they, and other grand marshals of the parade, passed. One marcher, who was 6-feet-tall and wearing nothing but aqua green shorts and a miniature top hat, applied lipstick dramatically using the reflection of an onlooker's aviator sunglasses.

    There is no doubt that we have a great time during LGBTQ PRIDE. It means a lot to us. We wore rainbow tube socks and had the pink, yellow and blue pansexual pride flag draped over our back. We were "honored to be here openly and freely and with the family that is either allies or part of the community."And for sure, In the evening, we went to Fiddlesticks Pub to drink and dance together. We shared the joy. Then we returned to our apartment and stayed in a private space that belonged only to both of us. The night is lovely, looking at each other's red cheeks. We have an unparalleled sexual experience. Of course, we also supplemented sex toys, which prompted us to experience faster orgasm. We often use sex toys to get more good feelings during our sex, stimulating our close relationship better and better.

    Therefore, I'd love to share some good sex toys with you guys. The production of these sex toys is designed for gays and provides gays with the best liberating experience. Here we go!!!

    Enjoy The Pleasant Experience Of Sex With The Help Of Sex Toys

    Sohimi FEDER Penis Massager

    The first sex toy I want to share is Sohimi FEDER Penis Massager. I am a big fan of black. So when I saw this penis massager that is as cool as the black knight, I was pleasantly surprised at first sight. It has a pure black appearance and a smooth and comfortable touch, which is precisely what I want. The Vibrating Penis Ring is made from silicone material, safe and durable in use. Therefore,when I use it privately, I feel 100% comfortable. It was like I’m warming up by the fireplace in the living room in winter.It's comfy! The sexiest thing is ten vibrations I can choose. I prefer the vibration mode from slow to fast.

    Sohimi FEDER Penis Massager

    This stretchy penis ring fits around my cock and balls when switching modes while stimulating my perineum with light pressure. I imagine myself feeling a 3D movie. At first, I was sitting on a small spaceship and slowly feeling the quietness of the deep forest. Then suddenly, I felt the coolness of crossing the small hills, then the Grand Canyon, and then the pleasure of ascending the sky at high speed. In a trance, lying on the warm clouds, the dense turmoil flowed through the whole body. The ground flew down onto a prairie, lying quietly, satisfied after being slightly awake.Eventually I was greeted with continuous orgasmic stimulation. Also, the low noise during use enhances my senses of privacy. Isn't it sweet for the user? I think so! Anyway, I love this sex toy a lot. It's worth sharing with you guys during LGBTQ PRIDE!

    Sohimi OLIVIA Prostate Milker 

    We all know that women have G-spots, and men have parts similar to G-spots. Men's "G-spot" is the prostate. The prostate is a unique male gonadal organ. Its shape looks like a well-developed chestnut, and its size is usually about 4 x 3 x 2 cms. If you want to make your pleasure intenser, you can try to stimulate your prostate.

    Sohimi OLIVIA Prostate Milker

    The second sexy toy I enjoy using is Sohimi OLIVIA Prostate Milker which is called a prostate massager. When I use it, I could explore my G-spot easily! How do I describe this excellent feeling??? Let me think about it, oh right! My G-spot feeling is like I licked a grain of sea salt, drank a glass of iced vodka tonic in one sip, and then chewed on a slice of lime. Or it's like the joy and excitement that the wine overflows after opening it with a corkscrew in a house party. Undoubtedly, I feel right when I explore it with the help of sex toys. Of course, this sex toy not only stimulates the position of the prostate, but it also stimulates the perineum, urethra, penis and testicles at the same time, which is a pretty thing. I can use it single or with my partner in a type of multiple pleasure.

    Sohimi S121 Vibrating Anal Beads

    The third sexy toy is called Sohimi S121 Vibrating Anal Beards. I want to recommend it to you guys as an auxiliary toy. It means that we could use this butt plug with one of the two sexy toys above cuz the superimposed use experience of the front and back may be sexier.It is equipped with a vibrating mouse, from small-shaped ball to large-shaped ball.

    Sohimi S121 Vibrating Anal Beads
    There are nine kinds of vibration from low to high, including low, medium, high, pulse, fluctuation, fading, bounce, massage, ramp. Step by step, you will feel different levels of vibration intensity. Indeed, I tried it from low to ramp. But if you want to start from the stimulus initially, you can also adjust to high to the ramp and then directly back to low, but if you are a new baby who has never tried butt plug, it is better to start with low.

    Invitation 

    The LGBTQ rights movement has made tremendous strides over the past few decades, and much of the progress in visibility is thanks in part to gay pride parades and marches that have taken place in cities around the world.

    SD PRIDE 2021

    In 2021, the LGBTQ PRIDE in the United States has been going on in certain areas. For example, as I learned, San Diego Pride will be held in San Diego from July 10th to July 18th. I strongly recommend you guys to go there once. The most important thing is remembering to bring the sex toys I recommend to enjoy this incredible experience better. And if you want to know more details about this San Diego Pride, search Pride month LGBTQ PRIDE events on google. I hope you guys will enjoy the sexy pride!

  • What’s The Most Popular Sex Toy Across America?

    20-10-2020

    What’s The Most Popular Sex Toy Across America?

    > jiajia lu

    Which toy is ideal? It relies upon your inclinations. However, this may give you a thought; According to an ongoing report led by Bespoke Surgical, dildos are the sex toy of decision across America, taking the primary spot on a rundown of the most favorite toys. Our website Sohimi is offering you one of the best Sohimi sex women and Sohimi sex male toys in town.

    To think of the rundown, analysts dissected the pursuit of enthusiasm for sex toys on Google Shopping. They chose eight general classifications to limit the outcomes: vibrators, dildos, binds, subjugation gear, rooster rings, male sex toys, and lash ones. Whereas Fifteen states had the most elevated enthusiasm for dildos, vibrators arrived in a nearby second with 11 countries. Subjugation rigging and butt plugs tied for third, connect ones took the fourth spot, and cockerel rings were the fifth most looked through sex toy on the web, and Sohimi got everything for which you desire. So, there will be no judgment from us; anything that increments sexual fulfillment also gives your well-being a lift, and we support that. 

    Top 5 Best Vibrators that you can grab ASAP!

    As our website Sohimi offers you the best sex toys available for both men and women. So, do not waste your time, we care for your needs, and we got all the toys you want. Here are some erotic products popular in sex, and you can easily get at Sohimi. 

    Automatic Heating Vibrator

    Sohimi is offering you an Automatic Heating Vibrator that has multi-reason, can invigorate ladies' G-point and clitoris simultaneously, feel numerous incitement alternatives, allow our wants to desire, sexual coexistence more agreeable. It is a remote-control heating vibrator. It provides you intelligent and programmed warming: when turning on the warming capacity of the vibrator, the vibrator consequently gets used to agreeable skin temperature, and it’s waterproof.

    With the calm vibrations of the vibrator, you can enjoy your desire. We have the best Sohimi sex toys for women and men. The vibrator can be energized by a USB attractive interface and is also the ideal partner in crime.

    This vibrator is minimal and unique. It has an exquisite shape and offers an energizing choice of 10 vibration levels. The vibrator can be bowed uninhibitedly for exact incitement and has a naturally canny push and addition plan, and separable pull base.

    You can utilize the vibrator decisively. Appreciate the smooth surface on and in your most personal zones and experience extraordinary emotions. Find your very own pleasure while the vibrator offers you murmur calm vibrations with the most excellent quality. 

    Rabbit Clitoral Vibrator: Ergonomic design sex toy with rechargeable vibrators clit Stimulator

    This Rabbit Clitoral Vibrator has ground-breaking calm engines that can be utilized simultaneously to invigorate your g-spot, clitoris, anal, or penis and amplify your pleasure regardless of you like moderate, consistent, or reliable heartbeats at various rates.

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