Hey there. Welcome back to Sohimi Sex Positions 101. Today we are exploring a position that is simple, spicy, and empowering. It’s all about commanding the moment and letting the pleasure soar. Whether you’re new to the game or an expert looking for a fresh thrill, this is a must-try. Come on in—we’re diving into your complete guide to a night of pure fantasy.
If you are looking for a move that combines intimacy with a serious power trip, it’s time to take the helm. Forget being a passenger; tonight, you are the captain.
What is the Captain Sex Position
Let’s break it down. The Captain Sex Position is a spicy evolution of the traditional Missionary, but with a mechanical twist that changes the entire power dynamic.
In this setup, the receiving partner lies on a bed or another firm, flat surface. The giving partner doesn't kneel on the bed; instead, they stand on the floor at the foot of the bed to penetrate from a standing position.
The key to this position—and where it gets its name—is the grip. The receiver lies back and opens their legs, lifting them towards the giver. The standing partner then grabs the receiver's ankles or calves, holding them firmly as if gripping a ship's steering wheel.
This isn't just about holding on; it's about steering the experience. By standing strong and holding the ankles, the "Captain" (the giver) has total leverage to adjust the depth, the angle, and the pace of the encounter. It turns the receiver’s body into a vessel of pleasure that the giver navigates with strength and precision.
Why You Need to Try It
Why should you leave the comfort of standard missionary to try The Captain? Because it offers a mix of visual dominance and physical intensity that is hard to beat.
Here is why this position deserves a spot in your rotation:
The "Power Trip" Factor
There is something incredibly primal about standing while your partner is laying back. It creates a psychological thrill of dominance. You are literally looking down at your partner, controlling their legs, and "driving" the motion.
Access to Deep Penetration
Because the giver is standing, they can generate a lot of force. Holding the ankles allows the giver to push the receiver's legs back slightly, opening the pelvic floor and allowing for deeper access.
As one user on a popular Reddit thread discussing standing-missionary variations noted: "The angle you get when standing at the edge of the bed is totally different. It feels deeper, almost like you’re hitting spots you miss when you’re both laying down. Plus, holding the legs gives you so much leverage to grind hard without getting tired."
The Visuals are Unmatched
For the Captain, the view is spectacular. You get a full-body view of your partner writhing in pleasure. For the receiver, looking up at their partner towering over them can be incredibly arousing and submissive.
It’s a Workout (In a Good Way)
Another Reddit user mentioned the physical benefits: "It’s my favorite because I can use my whole body weight to thrust rather than just my hips. It feels more animalistic, and my partner loves the feeling of being 'steered' around."
How to Do the Captain Sex Position
Ready to set sail? Executing the Captain requires a little bit of setup to ensure the mechanics work, but once you find the groove, it’s smooth sailing.
Step 1: Check the Altitude The most critical factor here is the height of your furniture. The Captain Sex Position is usually performed on a sturdy surface that isn't too tall or too short. The ideal angle is when the receiver's pelvis lines up roughly with the giver's hips or thighs. If the bed is too low, the giver will hurt their back hunched over; if it’s too high, the physics won’t work. Pro Tip: If your bed is too high, the standing partner can stand on a small, sturdy step stool.
Step 2: Assume the Position The receiving partner lies on their back at the very edge of the bed. Scoot down until your glutes are almost hanging off the edge. This is crucial for the standing partner to get close enough.
Step 3: Take the Wheel The giving partner steps between the receiver’s legs. The receiver lifts their legs up. The giver grabs the ankles or shins firmly—this is your steering wheel.
Step 4: Set Sail The giver enters the receiver. The giver should keep their knees slightly bent for stability and use their grip on the ankles to push and pull the receiver slightly with each thrust. Use the "steering wheel" to widen the legs for a shallower sensation or push them closer to the chest for a tighter, deeper feel.
Bonus Tips
Sohimi Starfish Vibrating Cock Ring
The Captain position is fantastic for penetration, but because of the angle, the clitoris (or the perineum for male receivers) is often left exposed and untouched by the bodies rubbing together.
This is the perfect opportunity to introduce a Sohimi Vibrator. The Sohimi vibrating cock ring might be the best choice. It’s completely hands-free and compact enough not to get in the way of the penetration. The ring helps keep the shaft harder and extends your playtime, while the vibrator delivers continuous stimulation to the clitoris.
The "Blended Orgasm" Trick: As the Captain, when you are driving the "ship" hard, tell your partner to press the Sohimi toy against themselves on the highest setting. The combination of the deep, authoritative thrusts from you and the high-frequency buzz from the toy creates a sensory overload that leads to earth-shattering climaxes.
Wrap It Up
The Captain Sex Position is more than just a physical act; it’s a roleplay of power and surrender. It allows one partner to take full responsibility for the pleasure, physically steering the encounter towards a climax.
It breaks the monotony of standard positions by adding a vertical element and a dominant grip that screams confidence. So, next time you’re in the bedroom, don’t just go with the flow. Grab the "wheel," take command, and guide your partner to a night they won’t forget.
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