How to Use A Rose Toy

How to Use A Rose Toy
January 5, 2026
How to Use A Rose Toy - Sohimi

Since 2021, rose sex toys have created a massive buzz on TikTok and across social media. This delicate-looking, flower-shaped vibrator has gained a huge following thanks to its whisper-quiet yet powerful suction and incredibly discreet appearance. It blew up in group chats everywhere simply because nobody could believe it was actually a sex toy! Its incognito design instantly sparked a global conversation.

This guide will walk you through what the rose vibrator exactly is, how to use it step by step, and some extra tips to turn a great experience into a mind-blowing one.

What Is a Rose Toy?

The rose toy is a clitoral suction toy designed to mimic the sensation of oral suction. It is compact, sleek and really in the same shape as a blooming rose. At the first glance, you may think it’s a decoration instead of a sex toy. It’s exquisite and discreet shape makes it perfect for tacking away in a drawer.

The round hole in the middle is where it offers suction. You won’t feel vibration when you hold the rose toy in the hand, because it uses air-pulses technology and soft suction to target the clitoris with focused stimulation. It offers a special sensation that many users said delivers faster and more intense orgasm than traditional vibrators.

Whether for deep solo play, teasing foreplay, or adding a spark to partnered sex, this toy fits every mood.

How to Use a Rose Toy?

Now for the main event: mastering this mind-blowing toy. Ready to play? Follow these simple step-by-step tips to get started:

#1 Make sure it’s full charge

There’s nothing worse than your toy dying right before the climax. Before you begin, ensure your rose vibrator is fully charged to guarantee consistent, powerful stimulation. A full battery provides up to 60 minutes of uninterrupted playtime, giving you plenty of time to explore without worry.

#2 Set a Mood

Never underestimate the power of ambiance; it is essentially the first step of foreplay. Transform your space into a sanctuary by dimming the harsh overhead lights and opting for the soft, warm glow of bedside lamps or candles. Adjust the room temperature so you aren't shivering, and perhaps play a low-volume playlist to drown out background noise. A cozy, private environment signals to your brain that it’s time to switch off the outside world, allowing you to let your guard down and heightening every touch and vibration.

#3 Use a Comfortable Position

The rose toy is not big so you can use multiple positions to enjoy. The most simply way is lying down on your back, open your legs and aim at your vulva. One of an advanced version is using the doggy style, you can stimulate clit from both ahead and behind. Squat is also a good choice, because it can reveal the clit without external assistance, which is much more stimulate.

#4 Know the Settings 

Sohimi rose toys can sync with an APP, which bring much fun to the session. Before you use it, know exactly how to use the basic buttons and advanced settings. Most toys have 1 to 2 buttons, which can conclude all modes. You can control it by the buttons or by the app. Our Joyhub app have many interesting functions, just check this article to read more: How To Use JOYHUB App. 
It takes times to explore the mode most suits you. Give more patience and try more patterns. You will find the best setting.

#5 Use Lube

Apply a few drops of water-based lubricant to both your clitoris and the nozzle of the rose. This not only ensures a smooth, friction-free experience but also helps create a better suction seal for intense sensations. Important: Since most rose vibrators are made of body-safe silicone, never use silicone-based lubricants, as they can degrade the material and ruin your toy.

#6 Try Different Techniques

Now you’re capable with all the preparations. When using a rose toy, even a small changes in rhythm and movement can take the experience to a whole new level. We recommend these tips for you to try with:

· Try teasing with on-and-off stimulation. If you keep the pressure constant, you might get desensitized and feel numb. Hold the rose toy against your clit for a few seconds, then pull it away to rest, and repeat. Or, try grinding in small circles around your clit—this usually helps you reach the orgasm faster.

· Use it during edging. Use the toy during edging sessions while engaging with visual or audio erotica. The added mental stimulation helps you enter a deep state of focus. Use the rose to get close to the peak, then pull it away to cool down. Repeat this 'stop-and-start' process multiple times to maximize the intensity of your final orgasm.

· Use it against a mirror. If you have a big or full-length mirror, you can lie in front of the mirror. Holding your rose vibrator in one hand, take full use of the other hand and see how your body responds in the mirror. As the rose works its magic, observe the disconnect between what you see and what you feel. Seeing yourself lose control as you edge closer to the peak adds a thrilling layer of voyeurism to your solo play.

#7 Try Using With Your Partner

Rose sex toy is good for solo play, but it can also be a fun and flirty addition to partnered play. Before anything starts, the rose is an appropriate teasing and flirting tool. Let your partner hold the vibrator and move around your sensitive zone. It can take the pressure off them and add a new level of connection. 

The toy is small enough to use during sex. Attach it on the vulva while penetration, which can lead to blended orgasms that feel totally next level. Why not use it on each other? You can also tease your partner’s nipples and whole body.

Sohimi Best Rose Toys 

#1 Classic Rose Toy

rose suction vibrator
Here is our OG Rose—the jasmine flower that packs a punch. It teases you with 10 suction modes, all hidden inside a design so discreet it fits in the palm of your heart. With its lush, velvety silicone finish, it’s not just a toy; it’s a work of art. In fact, it's so pretty, you might just want to keep it on your nightstand as decoration. (We won't tell if you do!)

#2 Dual Stimulation Rose

Air Pulse Tapping Clit Rose Vibrator with Thrusting Dildo - Sohimi
This model features the same iconic clitoral suction as our classic Rose, but takes it a step further with an attached vibrating egg. Slip the egg inside (vaginally or anally) for deep internal rumbles, while the rose petals work their magic on your clit. It’s the perfect recipe for a mind-blowing blended orgasm.

#3 App-controlled Rose Toy

ROSELOVE| Double - Layer Foreplay Rose Sucking Clitoral Vibrator - Sohimi
This rose contains the same rose-shaped clitoral suction stimulator as the classic version, but gives you limitless possibilities with smart App control. Sync the toy to your smartphone and enjoy customized vibration patterns, or hand over control to a partner anywhere in the world for thrilling long-distance play.

Quick Troubleshooting FAQ

Q: Why isn't it sucking?

A: You likely lost the seal. Add a bit more lube to create a vacuum effect between the nozzle and your skin.

Q: It's too intense!

A: This is common! The air-pulse technology is powerful. Try the "Panty Hack" mentioned above or use it on the side of the clit rather than directly on top.

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