How To Make Men Have Higher Libido Through Sex Toys?

Hi there! I bet you have read articles with the same title, or have questions about your relationship: Doesn't he love me anymore? Or our sexual relationship is not good.

Darling, trust us, negotiation is the best way to resolve any problem in love, and your man is not losing the desire to you, while he might be in low libido.

Low libido (or low sex drive) is such a common occurrence in women, men, and people of all genders and sexes. There are loads of reasons why everyone could be experiencing low libido, from medications to hormones, to stress, or just having other things going on in life.

And here today, we have four stories to show how these four people make their men high libido through sex toys.

We Both Love Anal Toys 

My boyfriend and I love anything having to do with anal penetration. We have been in love for two years and we are a gay couple. We fancy trying because repeats make him boring. To boost his libido, I got him a new anal plug as a surprise. I ordered the product from Sohimi website online because we did not have a sex store in town. The anal products were awesome and I highly recommend them if anyone wants to try it out, but remember to use lube!  

I was sitting down to take off the shoes, and swiftly he moved to take me from behind, pulling my panties to the side and he can't wait to try the new toys we just got. Everything about it felt so heightened for some reason tonight.  

Seeing my dick grew, he then took out this toy, put the cock ring and places it over my dick, the ring was tight, after putting the ring he also put another penis plug into my pee hole this was less painful with more lube. After putting that penis plug on, he took off his underwear and place his 13-inch hard cock near my mouth, I was gagging at first,  but started to get the taste of it when he leaked some precum out, he pulled his cock out of my mouth and became more excited.

 

And let me tell you... it was glorious that night. No idea what it was, but the energy was different from all before, so of course, we went at it multiple times and tried to go to sleep, but then did it again, then actually did go to sleep, then did it again in the morning. I can’t believe it, I never felt that turned on before in my life. The blood does leave my brain and I feel the world was coming out of my penis.

I’ve also become quite fond of incorporating butt plugs on occasion into our sex sessions. They provide a feeling of “fullness” which I very much enjoy—especially on nights where I’m feeling extra kinky. My boyfriend is also quite fond of anal toys which makes the prostate all the more enjoyable for us. 

Male Masturbator Makes Sex Better 

I have been married to my husband for almost three years. He is a very nice man and we have one baby now, but the sex life becomes less than before. 

One night, we went to his friend's birthday dinner at a trendy restaurant and had a ball. Seven courses of delicious food and wine pairings, followed by more drinks at a brewery nearby. I rarely drink, so by the end of the night, I was feeling good. So good, the sex started as soon as we got in his car. We sped down the highway back home. 

When sucking, I usually massage balls gently while I blow, and stop occasionally to suck and lick them. It's a little tricky because if you apply too much pressure it will hurt and be an erection killer, but if you do it just right it makes it a lot better.

When we got home, we tried the male masturbator and he relaxed completely but was more eager to me. And the bliss that radiated throughout my entire body, sparking a fire on my skin had me absolutely delirious. I didn't think it could be any more intense, but when he entered me, it was like the levees to my euphoria broke. I was underneath his spell, writhing and arching up into him. 

We love exploring different toys that work for both of us and bring both of us pleasure. We first decided to use toys after we had been together. He loved the idea of making our sexual encounters last longer by using sex toys as well as making things more exciting. For me, the appeal is the playing process. As parents, we can get stuck in that “get in and get out” kind of love-making. We purposefully take our time and push each other to our limits with sex toys. It’s a great way to communicate as well as bond while bringing a sense of playfulness into our bedroom.

Male Masturbator and Realistic Dildo Spice Up Marriage

I've been in a marriage with my husband for over ten years, and also have survived the dangerous seven-year itch. But the lack of sex forces us to talk less. I went to consult a doctor and tried to talk to my husband about the problem between us. He confessed that repeated sexual behaviors made him lose interest and no longer have any passion. 

I decided to change our sex life and arouse his sexual desire in me. I am open about my sexual desires but would never want my husband to do something I don’t like, that ruins it so we do what we both like and if we try something new he or I don’t like then we don’t do it. I hold that the key no not hurting the marriage is to only do the things we are both comfortable with, otherwise, it becomes one-sided and that’s not healthy for a couple.

 

Before I ordered the sex toy, I asked my husband: “How would you like to do some internet shopping for a new sex toy? I want to try it with you.” He said NOT BAD! Even looking can be fun so I am excited about having a look at which ones he might be interested in if any. 

We have seen a lot of toys: strap-ons, whether hollow ones or not, vibrators, anal plugs or dildos. Some of the affordable options looked cheap. Some were from sketchy online sellers. But we finally settled on the Sohimi. I really liked the cock ring and dildo after using them.


I had him undress and lay across the bed. I sat next to him and poured the water-based lube into his cock. I held his erection with one hand and worked the fake pussy onto the tip of his cock with the other. For a few moments, I only managed to spread the lube on him, but then I managed to slide it over his head.

At first, I gave his head some slow, short strokes. I soon realized that this is not just an ahead stimulating toy, but that it can be tugged down to cover most of the shaft, too. Watching the masturbator at work was just fascinating. I could also feel the ribs and bumps from the outside. It gave me a bit of an idea of what was happening to his blood inside the cock. Stroking him with it was really easy and comfortable. And playing with a rubbery toy gave me a really nice tactile sensation.

I tried a few different things. I alternated between short and long strokes. I rubbed it around the head to focus on the most sensitive parts of his cock. And I also managed to grip the toy with my thumb and index finger while wrapping my other fingers around his bare shaft to give him a combined stroke and a hand job. After playing with it for a while, we proceeded to have some more sex play with another toy.  

And then, I took the realistic dildo out and start massaging my clit, and my husband was watching,  showing much interest and sexual desire. His cock became hard again and asked me:" Darling, can we keep using the dildo while I fuck you?” 

I agreed and the result was fabulous because when he was on top, I used the dildo with massaging mode on my clit, and when we were in the doggy style, he held on to it. These products help him start more excited, and he can make me happier. 

Cock Ring – One Night Stand With A Music Man 

My friend organizes musical parties every now and then. The one I went to for the last time was quite thrilling and unexpected. It was a Friday night and I had made plans to go out with my friends later after the concert got over. I sat right in front to watch the musicians perform. The first performance was by a jazz guitarist who was also singing his own songs. We saw each other and it was like lust at first sight! Throughout his performance, he kept exchanging glances with me, like he was singing to impress me. After he finished and before the next performer came on stage we both unanimously decided to walk at the back of the terrace where the performances were happening and chat each other up. 

I immediately was so into him and we really start hitting it off. Last I took him home and we had the best sex of my life. 

There were hardly any words spoken. We'd just about exchanged names and pleasantries when he leaned in to kiss me. I kissed him back and went with the flow. There was a lot more than kissing that happened. His hands were everywhere and I couldn't contain the sounds coming out from my mouth.

We hugged and rolled, then rolled off the bed and we made lots of laughs. And the first time was not too long, and it seemed to a little rush, after a shower, we lied on the bed and we searched for topics and talked in order to break the embarrassment, and then the topic goes to the sex toy, the air got lit up. 

 

He said he was a big fan of male sex toys and ask me if we could show him the toys I had. He brought his cock ring in his bag with himself and I showed him my rabbit vibrator. He turned a wild animal in bed! The participation of sex toys made him extremely excited, at first, he kept massaging my G-spot and then he thirsted penetration. To my surprise, both of us were indulged in massive and numbers of orgasms. Heat and electricity and wetness met to form an explosive harmony as we rocked and rode the rhythm our lovemaking created. I found myself coming undone so many times at the call of his stroke, his chaste kisses, and my desperate hands that marred trails along the length of his back. Further evidence of my pleasure. I came twice before he announced his arrival, and then I came again. 

The next morning he woke up, took his guitar, and started strumming some jazz tunes while I was still waking up. We exchanged phone numbers and he was on his way out. I haven't heard from him since but I still have the violent marks left behind on my body from that night!

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