The apex sex position is popular as the deeper penetration, enhanced G-spot stimulation, and closer intimacy between partners. This position is suit for who want intense pleasure, a fresh experience, or a more controlled and connected feeling. Many people have strengthened their sensations and become more intimate through this position.
This guide maps everything you need to know — how to perform it, its advantages, what to avoid and how to enhance the experience with sex toys.
What is the apex sex position?
The apex sex position is a upgraded form of missionary. It elevate the pelvic to create a precise angle when inserting. With the a pillow, wedge or folded blanket, the penetrating side and thrust directly with the G-spot or prostate.
Key features of Apex sex position
· Face-to-face close
· Deeper, more precise penetrate
· Less waist pressure
· Match with G-spot, A-spot and prostate
With a little change of Missionary, you will gain a lot more fun and intimacy.
How to do the apex sex position?
Follow this step-by-step guide to get the complete tutorial.
· The receiving partner lies on the back on a flat surface.
· Elevate the receiving one's pelvic with a pillow, folded blanket or a sex wedge. The higher the pelvic lift, the deeper penetration.
· Lift and open legs in a relax way. The giving partner can also let your knees fall to sides, which looks like a supine butterfly shape. This does require a bit more flexibility, but the pelvic can relax more by open the legs.
· The giving partner can kneel or stand closer to the receiver's hip.
· Adjust the angle until both partners feel comfortable and aligned. The elevated angle will guide the shaft to the right spots.
This position is also suit for foreplay like finger teasing and oral sex. The pelvis fully exposes when the hip lift.
Variations of the apex sex position
Back apex:
The receiving partner supports themselves with their hands on the bed or a sturdy chair, and the giving partner lifts their legs. Think of it like a lawnmower but you're suspended in mid-air. With only the genitals touching and the hands holding the legs, the feeling of weakness and control becomes stronger. This boost in intensity helps many people reach orgasm faster.
Stickman:
This position uses couch. You are bent over the couchrest and your face pressed on the seat and your arms pull back by the giving partner who stick on your hip tightly.
This position is a bit like being "pinned" against the armrest, which can give the giving partner a stronger sense of control.
Toy-enhanced apex:
For the ultimate pleasure, using toys is a good choice. Cock ring with a clit vibrator can intensify pleasure during penetration. A double-ended vibrator works well for LGBTQ partners. Both users can feel the vibrations together and explore a variety of shared positions.
With any tools you can explore any other positions that take you to the heaven. But make sure you are safe and consented.
Common mistakes and how to avoid them
1. Use too high of the pillow. Excessive elevation may cause more pressure toward spine and the uncomfortable angle.
2. Lack of lubricant. When trying more extreme positions, using more lubricant is a good way to avoid injury.
3. Kneel too far away. This makes the penetration shallower and may also introduce some air, which can cause discomfort in the vaginal area.
Best sex toys to level up the apex position
The apex position offers deep stimulation and a unique angle. Using the right toys can enhance these sensations and create an even more intense and intimate experience. Here are some top choices to enhance sensation, pleasure, and control for both partners.
G-spot vibrator:
Ideal for adding internal pressure exactly where it counts. A curved tip allows the vibrator to hit the G-spot consistently. Paired with the rhythm of the apex position, it can lead to powerful blended orgasms. They're especially useful when the receiving partner wants more targeted stimulation without adjusting the position.
Clit vibrator:
Perfect for external pleasure—whether clitoral, perineal, or even lower-back teasing. Their powerful vibrations pair beautifully with the controlled movement of the apex position, helping intensify build-up and climax. Great for anyone who prefers extra stimulation during penetrative play.
Cock ring:
A great enhancer for the penetrating partner. Cock rings improve erection firmness, slow down over stimulation, and boost stamina. Some vibrating models provide clitoral or perineal stimulation during each thrust. This creates a layered sensation for both partners and pairs naturally with the apex position's close contact.
By combining toys with the apex position, you amplify every sensation—from deep internal pressure to external vibration—creating a more immersive, customized experience. This is an effortless way to intensify connection, boost pleasure, and help the receiving partner enjoy stronger, more controlled orgasms.
FAQs About the Apex Sex Position
1. Is the apex position beginner-friendly?
Yes—its simplicity and comfort make it ideal for couples of all experience levels.
2. Does it improve G-spot stimulation?
Yes. The pelvic tilt helps align penetration with high-sensitivity areas.
3. What pillow height works best?
A firm 8–15 cm cushion usually provides optimal angle without strain.
4. Can this position help with deeper orgasms?
Many people report stronger, fuller sensations because of the improved angle.
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The apex position mixes comfort, intimacy, and extra stimulation in a way that feels easy and fun for most couples. If you’re curious about deeper penetration, want more direct G-spot attention, or just feel like refreshing your sex life, this position gives you a great mix of pleasure and control.
And if you want to take things even further, try a few small tweaks, add your favorite toys, or explore something new together. Sohimi’s body-safe vibrators and couple-friendly toys are perfect for leveling up this position and creating even more exciting sensations.
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