Many couples who are in long-distance relationships may feel drained and insecure because of poor communication. Distance and time differences make it difficult for couples to have their physical needs met. Phone sex is a solution, but as time passes, it can become boring and harder to feel excitement.
In this situation, an app-controlled toy may helps a lot. We will introduce 3 tips for how to use them to spice up your night.
Basic Fun: Spice It Up with Voice Calls
Prepare your vibrator or masturbator and connect it to the app, then make a call and hear your partner moaning uncontrollably under your control. If both of you are using the toys at the same time, you can set the vibration patterns through the app's special function and imagine the sensations are coming from your partner.
Sohimi VIELE3 rabbit vibrator and MAIDEN automatic male-masturbator offer various ways of stimulation that deliver intense pleasure.
Next Level: Turn Up the Heat with Video Calls
What brings you even closer than a voice call is a video call. Adjust the camera to a flattering angle, and you can see your partner’s every move. That hazy sense of being so close yet untouchable makes you feel those butterflies, doesn’t it? Don’t forget the risk of privacy leaks when making video calls. Remember to do it in a safe environment and only with someone you trust.
Pro Level: Wearable Toys for Adventures Outside
If you’ve already tried all the above ways to play, why not take it up a notch by wearing a wearable toy outdoors? You never know when it’ll be switched on or when the pleasure will hit — maybe even in a crowded place where orgasm unexpectedly. Just don’t forget to set clear boundaries for the game and bring a clean underwear.
Sohimi wearable vibrators offer long lasting power, so you don’t have to worry about running out of power right in the peak. Enjoy the pleasure anytime, anywhere.
Tips You Should Know Before Playing
Create Private Space
1.Choose a comfortable environment. Make sure you’re in a private space at home where you won’t be disturbed by family or roommates. A comfortable environment helps you fully enjoy the experience.
2.Secure your device. Ensure your phone and app-controlled toy are updated to the latest version to avoid connection issues. Set strong passwords or enable two-factor authentication to protect your privacy. Avoid using public Wi-Fi when interacting to keep your session secure.
3.Minimize distractions. Turn off phone notifications or other potential interruptions to focus on each other. Being fully present enhances intimacy and makes the remote interaction feel more real.
Safety First
Safety is always the precondition of play.
1. Set a safety word. Always agree on a safe word before starting any play to ensure clear communication. It allows either partner to immediately pause or stop if things feel uncomfortable
2. Check in regularly. Keep checking in with your partner during the session to make sure they are okay. Simple questions like “Are you comfortable?” or “Do you want to continue?” can go a long way. Regular check-ins help prevent misunderstandings and ensure both partners feel secure.
3. Be mind of boundaries. Discuss limits and preferences ahead of time to avoid pushing each other too far. Respecting each other’s boundaries is key to a positive and safe experience. Boundaries can be adjusted gradually as trust and comfort grow.
4. Stop immediately if uncomfortable. If either partner feels pain, discomfort, or anxiety, stop all activity right away. Prioritizing safety ensures that play remains enjoyable and consensual for both.
Talk Before and After You Play
1. Talk before you play. Before starting, make sure to review the safe word and confirm each other’s boundaries. Discuss your preferences, desired intensity, and any concerns you might have. Clear communication beforehand ensures both partners feel comfortable and confident.
2. Talk after you play. After the session, check in with your partner about how they felt and what they enjoyed. Share feedback and be open about any discomfort or surprises. Talking afterward strengthens intimacy and helps improve future experiences.
Last Words
No matter the distance, intimacy doesn’t have to fade. With Sohimi, you’re never truly alone—every vibration, every connection, is a reminder that pleasure and closeness can always be shared. Let Sohimi be your companion, keeping you connected, playful, and cherished, anytime and anywhere.
