Recently, our inbox has been flooded with a similar concern:
“I live in a shared apartment/dormitory and I’m worried about the noise when using sex toys.”
A real struggle exists. Living with roommates or in a dorm can cause 'privacy anxiety.' This is not just about noise. It also involves the awkwardness of storing and cleaning your toys without others seeing you. If you’re nodding along right now, you’re in the right place. Read on for our guide to discreet pleasure.
Storage
Finding a private spot in a shared room is difficult, but you can still find some clever workarounds. The golden rule here is layering.
Never leave your toys loose in a drawer. First, put them in a dedicated velvet pouch or a breathable cotton bag. Then, place that pouch inside a makeup bag or a deep organizer bin at the back of your closet. If you like decoy container, a shoe box , a boring-looking shopping bag or even an old sunglasses case can work wonders.
This double-layer method does two things: it keeps your toys clean from dust, and it ensures that if a roommate accidentally opens your drawer, they won't see anything explicitly... awkward at first glance.
The Noise
Wait for a day when you have the house to yourself. Turn on the toy and bury it under your quilt. This step is important because it copies the soft sound of the toy against your skin. This sound is much quieter than buzzing in open air.
Then, walk out of your room and test the distance: go to the hallway or the living room to see if you can still hear the buzz. If you can't hear it, your roommates definitely won't!
If the buzz is still a little too noticeable for your liking, it’s time to create a 'sonic shield'. Try turning on some music, a podcast, or your favorite TV series and bumping up the volume slightly. Opt for music with a steady beat or a movie with plenty of action scenes, as these work best to mask the mechanical whirring frequency.
Using sex toys while taking a shower is also a good method. The sound of running water helps mask the buzzing noise. Plus, playing in the bathroom makes cleanup a breeze.
Finally, choose your gear wisely. Opting for a quiet hands-free stroker and quiet vibrator is a game-changer for shared spaces.
Most Sohimi vibes are engineered to be whisper-quiet—making them perfect for dorm life. Even our upgraded male masturbators are designed to deliver powerful pleasure without the noise, so you can enjoy yourself without worrying about who's listening.
Clean
Cleaning is a crucial part of the experience. If you don't clean your toys right after a session, they can deteriorate or become a breeding ground for bacteria.
But we know, walking to a shared bathroom with a toy can be awkward. The solution? The 'Laundry Bundle.' Simply wrap the toy in your dirty clothes or hide it in your laundry basket as you head in for a shower. Or you can use a baby wipe just going through the motions. Once you're private, warm water and mild soap are perfect for cleaning most materials like silicone and TPE.
Warp it up
Living with roommates shouldn't mean sacrificing your pleasure. We hope these tips help you enjoy your "me-time" worry-free! Now lock your door, take out your toy, and enjoy yourself.
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