Are Men Who Play With Sex Toys Potential Sex Addicts?

If you are wondering whether you or someone you know might be sexually addicted (as opposed to being a sexual player in a sexual world), it can be helpful to understand the primary differences between casual, at-risk, and addicted users. 

Before we start today's topic, let's take a look at the two earlier reports, a sex toy survey from the UK, and a survey by Chicago's Berman Center from the U.S. The results were presented at the Men's Sexual Health State-of-the-Art Series conference in Chicago. 

A toy company in the United Kingdom previously conducted a public questionnaire survey to determine how many Brits owns a sex toy, and the results may surprise you. Well, just under three million Brits own a device designed to stimulate pleasure. For those of you looking for specifics, the exact number is a staggering 2,947,200, almost half of the population of the UK. The survey found that gays are more likely to use a sex toy, whilst only one in eight straight men would admit to owning a sex toy. 

Besides, a U.S website also conducted a questionnaire. About 1,600 agreed to complete the survey, answering questions about their relationship status and use of sex toys. 

The majority, 58 percent of sexually active people who responded to the sex survey have used sex toys, with women slightly more likely to use them than men. Sex toys are the most popular with bisexual men and gays, with about 80 percent of those who participated in the survey using them. Males aged between 25 and 34 were most likely to use sex toys (seven out of ten). 

We can see from these two reports that men and people with third sexual orientation are the main groups who use sex toys. The current survey shows that people are still using sex toys, but how many times a day and how often they use them has not been ascertained. If people use sex toys excessively, what kind of situation will be?

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What Is Sex Addiction?

By way of a definition, "sex addiction" is described as a compulsive need to perform sexual acts to achieve the kind of "fix" that a person with alcohol use disorder gets from a drink or someone with opiate use disorder gets from using opiates. For people with sex addiction, it can be highly dangerous and result in considerable difficulties with relationships. Like drug or alcohol dependence, it has the potential to negatively impact a person’s physical and mental health, personal relationships, quality of life, and safety.

It’s believed that a person with sex addiction will seek out multiple sex partners, though this in itself is not necessarily a sign of a disorder. Some report that it may manifest itself as a compulsive need to masturbate, view pornography, or be in sexually stimulating situations. 

Sex addiction is defined as a lack of control over sexual thoughts, urges, and impulses. While sexual impulses are natural, sex addiction only refers to behaviors that are done in excess and significantly impact one’s life in a negative way.  

A person with sex addiction may significantly alter their life and activities to perform sexual acts multiple times a day and is reportedly unable to control their behavior, despite severe negative consequences. This desire often interferes with their ability to live their daily life. Sexual addictions can come in many different forms, including addiction to: 

  • Sexual acts
  • Prostitution
  • Watching or consuming pornography
  • Masturbation or sexual fantasy 
  • Exhibition or voyeurism 

The term sex addict is used quite often these days, though most people do not know what it means to live with this condition. We live in a society where we inaccurately label things as addictions, especially when it comes to behaviors. People tend to believe that a sex addict is a person who has a higher libido than what is considered to be normal or has weird fetishes, whilst others use it as an excuse for particular behaviors like cheating. 

In reality, sex addiction comes in numerous forms, such as:

  • Looking for prostitutes
  • Online adultery
  • Or addiction to pornography
sex in head sex addictHowever, the underlying problems are the same. People who suffer from sex addiction can not or do not know how to get their needs met through healthier means. Additionally, the internet has made it even easier for individuals with compulsive sexual behavior to look for ways to gratify their compulsions. 
 

Ultimately, sex addiction has the same consequences as any type of behavioral addiction, which is why the addict must treat sex addiction before it ruins their life. The topic of sex addiction has always been a very hot social concern. Here we recommend you two excellent movies on sex addiction. 

Nymphomaniac: Volume I & II  

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This movie has two volumes. The full story is about a self-diagnosed nymphomaniac who recounts her erotic experiences to the man who saved her after a beating. When she was very young, Joe discovered that she had a high sexual desire that was different from ordinary people. The young ignorance and ignorance made Joe readily accept her differences. As she grew older, she began to wander around boldly and unrestrainedly. In the sea of ​​lust, even with friends, she founded a club that specializes in accepting "female addicts". 

Joe is an addict that every woman suppresses in her heart. She has amazing beauty, she has deep desires, she is unscrupulous and fearless, destroying everyone who touches her. She secretly walked naked in the thunder and lightning wilderness, and the flash of light illuminated her, and the land she walked through was like a piece of scorched earth. She accompanied a majestic symphony, walking in the wilderness. She is so pure, like a water-thirsty walker in the desert, asking for it, asking for it, like a bottomless pit. 

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When different lovers are intertwined into a harmonious movement, sex addicts get the most pleasurable pleasure from it. If they have to find the root of our strong desire, it has nothing to do with love, it is just a longing, longing for the gorgeous colors of the sunset, Eager to change the polyphonic melody, eager to occupy and own. It is the greatest instinct in the world, transcending the flesh, transcending emotions.  

Go straight to pure. 

I Am a Sex Addict 

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In love and marriage, the 43-year-old Caveh (played by Caveh Zahedi) has repeatedly fought and defeated repeatedly. There were a total of two women who tied him up with him and then abandoned him. The reason is nothing else, just because Caveh is an incurable sex addict. Sex addiction, as the name suggests, is the inability to suppress one's pathological craving for sex.

Caveh has survived through pain and confusion, and he is full of confidence to start the third marriage. Under the torment of "sickness", can this marriage of Caveh be long? 

The style of the film is light, but humorous. To be honest, the image of the director and male bishop is quite shrinking, which fits the image of "sex addict". No one else sex addict could see the difference, just like the other patients he met when he later attended the sex addict treatment class. This is also the biggest feature of the film, which is to face the lives of our ordinary people. It explains many of the many problems we have when we are in love and getting along, and it often makes us find ourselves. 

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Physiologically, most men tend to be sex addicts. The instinct of men to put sex first not only makes women very distressed but also makes many well-educated men very depressed. The protagonist of the film is like this. He knows the importance of love to him, and he can't control himself. The reaction of his different girlfriends to his habits in the film is also worth thought-provoking. The first girlfriend tried her best to satisfy his desires in the relationship between the two, but later she could not accept his "truth". He just wanted to be an ostrich with his head buried in the sand. Later, he cheated again. Some girlfriends severed him categorically, and others tried to exchange man’s loyalty by completely indulging him. In these interactions, men continue to experience a conflict between their lower and upper bodies. All beliefs about "equality between men and women", "absolute honesty", and "to love someone must be completely accepted" are constantly being challenged. And this constant self-denial brings greater distress. 

Sex Toys Are Good Choices

The function of sex toys can satisfy them, but it cannot be said that people who use sex toys are possibly sex addicts. Normally, everyone has a sexual desire and people use sex toys just to make sex more enjoyable and experience different sex! Whether you are a sex addict and cannot be satisfied by desire or not, sex toys could be the best and safest choice. 

The first product we recommend is Sohimi GABI Double Penetration Dildos. A double dildo is a dildo with two heads for double penetration, and the double penis sex toy is usually longer than a traditional dildo since people use it for gay toy or self-masturbation of both the vagina and anus. This typical double-ended dildo allows for the stimulation of two orifices. Generally speaking, the traditional dildo can only be used by oneself or by one's partner during making love, but double penetration dildos can be shared by couples and build up a profound sense of connection to your relationship, deeper than a traditional one-head dildo. Some people use sex as a spice of life, and some use sex as an enhancement of love. This degree of double stimulation can't be compared with a traditional dildo used for a single person, especially for a person in a relationship, a lover, or a couple of true love. The keyword of double penetration dildos is the connection in a sexual relationship, making every movement of thrust so delightful for both to feel.

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The third product is Sohimi OLIVIA Prostate Milker. We have recommended it in the previous articles, but this wonderful product is worth repeating thousands of times, and every man should deserve it. Orgasm is the best form of self-care, and prostate toys are the best sexual tool to help you reach the top. Among countless kinds of vibrators, No matter you are a beginner or experienced, when comes to prostate toys, it must be the best prostate toy for you!

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Love yourself 

If you don't have the common behaviors of the above-mentioned sex addiction traits, then don't worry. Everyone has sexual desire. This is a normal physiological phenomenon. Putting yourself into the range of sex addiction will only bring you troubles. If you already have an addiction and cannot control your actions, please contact a doctor or a professional for help. The world is generally good. If you love yourself, the world will love you too. 

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