It’s time to think about the most romantic, creative, and entertaining ideas to surprise your boyfriend. You want it to be better than anything his ex-girlfriends have ever done for him before.
But what exactly can that be?
How can you come up with something so amazing that it’ll blow his mind and make him fall in love with you?
Your friends are giving you all types of suggestions. But if you’re honest with yourself, you surely know your boyfriend better because they don’t know what your man likes, and you know what he has gotten surprised badly in the past.
Even when you ask his friends, they won't offer the best choice because they have hidden what they truly like out of the union of male friendship, being alienated and polite to their friends’ girlfriends.
Great. If you're still scrambling to find the perfect festival gift for your penis-owning partner, why not give him the sweet gift of enhanced orgasms with a male sex toy? Sure, it's easy for men to orgasm without sex toys, but that doesn't mean they don't need them. If they want to have a little extra fun, they can also enjoy the sex toys.
Here today, we have talks with four girls who had purchased sex toys for their boyfriends and let’s know their stories. And the submission has been edited for grammar and clarity.
Sex With My Boyfriend Is Boring
Sohimi: The first girl’s name is Yuri and she is 24 years old. Hi Yuri, could you tell us what your love story is and why you buy the sex toy for your boyfriend?
Yuri: Hey Sohimi, I am currently in a lovely 2-year relationship with my boyfriend and things being great. We face problems like every other couple and we have been actively resolving them. We have started making plans for the future, but I am starting to realize a small problem… our sex life is bad.
My bf is my first sexual partner but my bf has been quite sexually frivolous. Our relationship was very rocky in the beginning so it never occurred to me that sex was a problem. He is not a selfish person in bed, just not very adventurous.
There are a lot of things I would like to try but he would just brush it off by saying he has done it before and doesn’t like it, explaining why he wouldn’t want to do it again. I understand and respect his decision, but I have not been wanting our sex to be forever rare. I might not like the things I want to try but it would be nice to at least experience them. I have been trying to convince him nicely but he is unwavering. Because of that, sex has been getting really boring and almost obligatory.
Sohimi: So what male sex toy did you buy for him?
Yuri: The male masturbator, Eliza, Eliza-Hands Free Male Masturbator. I gave him that on our Valentine’s dating.
Sohimi: How did your boyfriend feel when you gave this gift to him?
Yuri: He had a strange reaction to the whole thing like he didn’t even want to try it. That baffled me. I thought they looked cool and I assumed they would be fun to use. If I had a cock, I would definitely stick mine and I kind of hope I would have a real cock on me so I could try fingering it.
At first, I couldn’t get him interested, but I stayed fascinated since he wasn’t keen on them, I looked for porns that featured them. Watching men using in the videos was really cool, and turned us on.
He told me he was pleasantly surprised that the toy provided a bit of suction at times, especially with short and shallow strokes. And when he penetrated inside, he said it felt like my mouth was covering his entire cock. I wanted to know if it was similar to a blowjob or penetrative sex. After some thinking, he told me it felt a bit better than my mouth except that it wasn’t real. It wasn’t like a better hand job or a worse blowjob, it was a completely new sensation. Anyway, we are both satisfied with it, my man feels refreshing after using and I feel happy because he stepped further on the way to the new sex, we are looking forward to having more fun in the future.
Long-Distance Love On Penis Massage
Sohimi: The second girl’s name is Ann and she is 21 years old. Hi Ann, could you tell us what your love story is and why you buy the sex toy for your boyfriend?
Ann: My partner and I were long-distance for two years, you know, There are a lot of inconveniences in separating the two places. It depends on our mutual trust and persistence that we can get to the present. So to make sure he stayed happy, I bought him a really nice penis massage. My biggest pity was that we were impossible to be orgasm together on spot but It was still the most satisfying option.
Sohimi: What male sex toy did you buy for him?
Ann: The penis massage can be in Remote Control for couples. The rose-red color, really cute. I bought two, one for me, and one for him, the package is fast and shipped discreetly. We got it on the day before Valentine's Day. And we can control the mode on each other like we are never separated by distance.
Sohimi: How did your boyfriend feel when you gave this gift to him?
Ann: He is not surprised at all. Honestly speaking, I am a big fan of sex toys. And we have gifted sex toys before. But I cannot believe that we have fun, so much of this penis massage! Yet it was so erotic and sensual. We talked and laughed, then we both come to orgasm. I think I laughed so much because I did not know how to handle all those incredible feelings between my legs.
It really felt as if my boyfriend was making intimate love to my pussy (and doing it in such a public place). It felt as if he had his fingers in me, fingering me and playing with my clit all at the same time. What made it even more special was that he had the control button and I could not do anything to stop him.
His words were sexy on the phone. I was so desperate for him to switch it on. I loved the way that he begged to stop and start, over and over, until I was sitting in my own juices. I was so wet and had three massive orgasms with him. It was a sexy experience. Knowing that I sent him toys was an amazing thrill and helped with the long distance. When the package got there, he got great pleasure out of showing and teasing me over Face Time, and I had no complaints. Made the long distance thing fun!
Add New Love In Relationships
Sohimi: The third lady’s name is and she is 35 years old. Hi Methy, could you tell us what your love story is and why you buy the sex toy for your boyfriend?
Methy: Well, I just never had the nerve to go into an adult store. My boyfriend, Jason, once said that sex toys were only for women whose men didn't know how to get them off. Over the five years, buying a sex toy online only crossed my mind a few times. What always stopped me was the thought that Jason would take it as scorn against his manhood.
We have been living together for 3 years, and I didn't know what to do with myself. Jason and I were spending a lot more time together, and there was more room in our lives for intimacy. The problem was, I was bored. We'd been having sex in the same way for what felt like forever—the same positions, the same place (our bed), and pretty much the same time once or twice a week. When I got up the nerve to talk about this with one of my girlfriends, she told me about the product from Sohimi.
I was still a bit skeptical. It wasn't like I never had orgasms—I did, and they were for the most part good. But they also sometimes felt boring after repeated many times. So I ask myself why not change it? And then I bought one cock ring after selection.
Sohimi: So what male sex toy did you buy for him?
Methy: The black one, BANANA Prostate Stimulator.
Sohimi: How did your boyfriend feel when you gave this gift to him?
Methy: That night we served dinner out in a French restaurant, drank some wine and turned the conversation to sex. I mentioned that a friend of mine and then gave the present to him. To my surprise, he didn't get upset. In fact, all that talk about sex led to us getting it on an amazing night. After we left the restaurant, Jason suggested we go home and "try this toy".
But the best part came when we arrived home. He pulled me out of my car and rammed his hard cock inside me from behind while he pushed me face-down on the hood. The panty was switched on, and he just moved it to one side as entering me. He was like a wild animal that night.
Love Is Always With Him
Sohimi: The last girl’s name is Bella and she is 27 years old. Hi Bella, could you tell us what your love story is and why you buy the sex toy for your boyfriend?
Bella: Hi, sure. I'd been seeing a guy for two months and I'm really into him. I'm realizing there may be some long-term compatibility here and he says he feels the same. So we are in love. But here's the thing quickly: He can't get hard. At first, he just couldn't stay hard. We hook up and he does everything he can get me off (and is very good at it). But he doesn't want me to handle his penis, doesn't want me to go down on him... doesn't want me to even try and get him off in any way because he says he knows it's not going to work. The two times I've tried to talk to him about it, I could tell he felt awful.
I'm a really sexy girl, and our sex life is important to me. What's more, it's making me feel insecure. We're only in our 30s, I don't want this to be a lover-breaker. So I made the order and wanna try with him.
Sohimi: So what male sex toy did you buy for him?
Bella: Well, the blowjob masturbator.
Sohimi: How did your boyfriend feel when you gave this gift to him?
Bella: He was conflicted about accepting it. Men are really weird about their penises. And I can't talk too much with them, there's an insane amount of pressure on guys to get it up and make sex last. Not being able to get a boner can make a lot of men feel emasculated and powerless. And those feelings don't really inspire guys to talk. Instead of being raised to discuss their feelings or insecurities, men are too often taught to "be a man" and "toughen up."
I keep telling him how much I like him and explain that I'm just trying to make him feel better. The toy is a gift from my love. I am as supportive as possible will only help and never leave him. After struggling, he accepted it.
He was still a bit weird about the whole idea, but he was more open-minded about it. He likes it now and the sucking it actually feels no different itself, but all the sensations are amplified and the mouth on penis contact feels amazing. I would guess it's akin to what the mouth on the vagina feels like, just amplified and pleasurable touch.
