Anal shouldn't be painful if you're doing right! Using the anal stimulator correctly is the key to providing you and your partner a pleasing sex experience.
Make sure you can accept anal sex in your mind
Before exploring the back roads, you should keep in a good mood which can help release the stress of your first experience.
Clean yourself and take it easy
Clean yourself if you have time, sometimes take a bath will help you feel good. But it's okay to wipe the specific area if you are in a rush.
Add plenty of lubes
Not the same as the vagina, the anus cannot self-lubricate. Thus, lots of lubes are required to be loaded on the anal stimulator. Moreover, depends on anal dildos made from different materials, you should choose the right kind of lubricant.
Water-based lubricant (suitable for silicone anal stimulator)
Silicone-based lubricant (suitable for stainless steel anal dildo)
Start and go slowly
Find the best position to try. Take a deep breath and slowly insert the anal stimulator in. Adjust the direction and let it keep deep inside your body to hit the spot.
For a manual dildo for anal, gently move it up and down with your hands.
For vibrating anal dildo or other automatic anal dildos, choose a soft mode to start from.
When you're done
Pull out the dildo for anal carefully, wash your hands and clean the toy thoroughly with water, let the toy air-dry and store it safely.