The 5 Most Hurtful Ways To Have Sex, Stop Doing It!

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Every couple hopes to enjoy the most wonderful sex, but some wrong sexual positions, incorrect sexual concepts, and small details that are not aware of can all affect physical health. Especially the following five sexual methods, they must be avoided.



No.1 Deliberately prolonging sex time



In clinical practice, many patients have a too-fast ejaculation speed, and their partners are dissatisfied and cannot reach orgasm. Especially when encountering women who need a long sexual intercourse time to achieve orgasm, male patients are under more pressure. This difference in sexual synchronization makes many men very headache and even feel very frustrated. Some people treat sex life as a heavy task because of this, and cannot experience the happiness that harmonious sex life brings to both husband and wife.

Most men always want to adopt various methods to delay ejaculation time. Some people endure not to ejaculate, but forcibly restraining ejaculation can lead to excessive congestion in the pelvic cavity, which increases the burden on the sexual nervous system and sexual organs. After normal ejaculation during sexual intercourse, the body fluid in the sexual organs is fully excreted and gradually becomes weak. Soon, the blood flow state in the penis returns to normal. If ejaculation is interrupted artificially, the speed of blood flow recovery in the sexual organs will slow down, causing sustained congestion.

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Excessive congestion in the pelvic cavity on the one hand reduces male sexual desire, making it difficult to enjoy sex and easily inducing erectile dysfunction; on the other hand, it is easy to induce genital system infections, such as chronic prostatitis and seminal vesiculitis, and discomfort such as frequent urination, urgency, and bloody semen may occur. The male physiological anatomy tells us that if the integrity of the normal anatomical structure of the bladder neck is destroyed, restraining ejaculation may cause semen to "go through the back door" and cause retrograde ejaculation, that is, semen enters the bladder and then is discharged out of the body with urine. Since sperm cannot enter the vagina and combine with eggs to form fertilized eggs, women cannot become pregnant.

So, are there any scientific and effective training methods to help men get rid of the problem of premature ejaculation? The scrotum traction method and the penis squeezing method with the partner can also be used to reduce excitement and delay ejaculation, achieving the effect of treating premature ejaculation. Some medical experts believe that fundamentally speaking, premature ejaculation is due to the low and hreshold of stimulation required for ejaculation, and based on this theory, they invented "behavioral therapy for premature ejaculation." Their advocated method aims to increase the threshold, eliminate the connection between sexual stimulation and ejaculation response:

1. Stimulation to the point of almost ejaculating: This step involves stimulating the penis to the point where the man is close to ejaculating but not quite there yet. The idea is to increase the level of stimulation gradually and help the man become more aware of his arousal levels.
2. Stopping stimulation until excitement subsides: Once the man is close to ejaculating, he needs to stop all stimulation to allow the excitement to subside. This helps break the connection between sexual stimulation and ejaculation.
3. Repeating the process: The man needs to repeat steps 1 and 2 multiple times. Each time, he should try to prolong the duration of sexual activity before stopping to reduce his sensitivity to sexual stimulation.
4. Building tolerance to stimulation without ejaculating: As the man continues with the above steps, he should be able to tolerate more and more sexual stimulation without ejaculating. Eventually, he should be able to engage in sexual activity for a longer time period without ejaculating prematurely.

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It's worth noting that this approach may not work for everyone, and it's important to consult a qualified medical professional before trying any treatment for premature ejaculation. Additionally, some people may prefer alternative methods such as medication, therapy, or the use of sexual aids like Sohimi's products.

No.2 Second sexual attack

After the first sexual intercourse, the male penis excitability decreases. If the penis is immediately required to erect again, it is easy to induce autonomic nervous dysfunction, cause prostate congestion, glandular relaxation, and dilation, and harm prostate health. Excessive ejaculation can also reduce pituitary anterior lobe function, increase testicular burden, and accelerate male aging. Continuing to launch the second attack in a short time can easily lead to physical discomfort such as soreness and fatigue.

 

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No.3 Dry friction

High friction during sex can have various harmful effects on both partners. Excessive friction can cause irritation and abrasions on the skin, leading to discomfort and pain during sex. In some cases, this can even lead to injuries such as tears in the vaginal or anal area.

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High friction can also cause dryness and discomfort due to a lack of lubrication, which can make sex less enjoyable and even painful. This can also lead to a higher risk of sexually transmitted infections as it can cause tiny cuts or tears in the skin, which can serve as entry points for bacteria and viruses.

Additionally, high friction can cause a decrease in sensitivity, which can make it more difficult to achieve orgasm for both partners. This can lead to frustration and disappointment, and may even contribute to sexual dysfunction in the long term.

To avoid the harmful effects of high friction during sex, it is important to use adequate lubrication and practice safe sex. Using sex toys, such as those offered by Sohimi, can also enhance sexual pleasure while reducing friction and discomfort. It is also important to communicate openly with your partner and discuss any discomfort or pain during sex to ensure a safe and pleasurable experience for both partners.

 

No.4 Foreplay is not enough

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Insufficient foreplay and unsuitable positions can greatly affect the quality of sexual experiences. Men's genital skin has many wrinkles, secretes a lot of sweat, and is difficult to clean. Coupled with poor ventilation in the perineal area, if men do not have good cleaning habits, they may develop hygiene dead corners, becoming a breeding ground for bacteria and other pathogens. This not only brings reproductive diseases to men but also makes their sexual partners victims of various gynecological diseases. Therefore, personal hygiene should be emphasized during sexual activities, with careful cleaning of private parts before sex, and taking necessary safety measures. This not only cleanses the body, increases the satisfaction of both parties during sex but also promotes blood circulation in the perineal area, which plays a role in preventing and treating sexual dysfunction and other diseases.

Women's sexual desires are slow to develop, weaker, and sexual excitement appears later. Therefore, if foreplay is lacking in sexual activities, it is generally difficult for men to arouse women, and may even lead to insufficient secretion of accessory gland fluids, failing to play a lubricating role. Rushing in with rough movements can easily cause female discomfort or even pain. Generally, foreplay should last around 15 minutes.

Sexual activities can be varied from time to time. Unchanging sex can be boring. You need to constantly innovate to keep it fresh. In fact, there are many common household items around us that can be used as sex toys, which can not only improve sex but also make it more wonderful.

 

No.5 Inappropriate position

 

To enjoy perfect sexual experiences, it is also important to master the correct positions. Adopting the correct position can not only increase sex appeal but also stimulate both parties to orgasm. Some positions can also achieve the goal of improving fertility and preventing and treating diseases. Some sexual dysfunction and premature ejaculation are related to improper positions. For example, non-ejaculation syndrome can use female superior position, female sexual frigidity can use side position, and sexual climax deficiency can use 69 positions. The traditional position is male superior position, but maintaining the same position every time can easily make sex partners tired of it. Reasonably changing positions can stimulate both parties' sexual excitement, increase physiological pleasure, and promote psychological harmony.

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Unsuitable positions during sexual activities can cause excessive force on one side of the waist, which can lead to back pain, pelvic and buttock muscle spasms, and even erectile dysfunction or ejaculation dysfunction. Especially for obese individuals, poor body flexibility and flexibility can make the problem worse. Therefore, the heavier person should try to be on the bottom, and if both partners are overweight, side positions can be considered. In addition, sitting or semi-sitting positions can be used for people with heart disease, and kneeling position can be used for infertility (posterior uterine position).

Engaging in harmful sexual practices can lead to physical injury and health complications. Some of these practices include rough or non-consensual sex, using inappropriate or unsanitary objects, and ignoring safe sex practices.

In addition to these risks, it is important to also consider the potential damage that can be caused by using low-quality or unsafe sex toys. For example, using sex toys made with toxic materials can result in chemical burns or other harmful reactions.

That's why it's important to choose high-quality and safe sex toys, like those offered by Sohimi. Their selection of vibrators, dildos, and other products are designed with user safety in mind, using body-safe materials and innovative designs.

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Sohimi Rabbit Vibrator: This sex toy is designed to provide dual stimulation to the clitoris and G-spot, which can lead to more intense and satisfying orgasms for women. It also features various vibration modes and speeds to help users explore their sexual preferences.

Sohimi Prostate Massager: This sex toy is specifically designed for men and targets the prostate gland, which can provide unique sensations and help improve prostate health. It also features different vibration modes and speeds for customized pleasure.

Sohimi Kegel Balls: These sex toys are designed to help women strengthen their pelvic floor muscles, which can lead to better bladder control, improved sexual function, and even stronger orgasms.

By prioritizing safety and taking care to avoid harmful sexual practices, individuals can enjoy a healthy and satisfying sex life without putting their physical health at risk. Remember to always communicate with your partner, prioritize consent, and use safe and reliable sex toys to enhance your pleasure without compromising your well-being.

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